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The share of Americans who say sex between unmarried adults is “not wrong at all” is at an all-time high. Most women can—at last—get birth control for free, and the morning-after pill without a prescription.

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When you find someone via an app, there’s less uncertainty. I use dating apps because I want it to be clear that this is a date and we are sexually interested in one another.

As a 27-year-old woman in Philadelphia put it: “I have insecurities that make fun bar flirtation very stressful. If it doesn’t work out, fine, but there’s never a Is he asking me to hang as a friend or as a date?

Another woman wrote that she was “too lazy” to meet people, adding: “I usually download dating apps on a Tuesday when I’m bored, watching TV …

I don’t try very hard.” Yet another woman said that she used an app, but only “after two glasses of white wine—then I promptly delete it after two hours of fruitless swiping.”Many critiques of online dating, including a 2013 article by Dan Slater in The Atlantic, adapted from his book A Million First Dates, have focused on the idea that too many options can lead to “choice overload,” which in turn leads to dissatisfaction.

For one thing, lots of people appear to be using them as a diversion, with limited expectations of meeting up in person.

As Iris, who’s 33, told me bitterly, “They’ve gamified interaction.

Sex is portrayed, often graphically and sometimes gorgeously, on prime-time cable.

Sexting is, statistically speaking, normal.dating apps be so inefficient at their ostensible purpose—hooking people up—and still be so popular?

“Getting right-swiped is a good ego boost even if I have no intention of meeting someone,” one man told me.

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