Dating a man that is going through a divorce
Well, if there’s only a few thousand of those jobs out there, there’s going to be a LOT of unemployment. That means he’s going to be a workaholic – that’s what made him a millionaire. Yes, attraction matters, but seriously, it’s a short term high.
First Thessalonians instructs us to “abstain from all appearance of evil” (KJV).
The better choice is to abstain from any action that could endanger one spiritually or give the impression to others of a careless attitude toward marriage.
Question: "I am in the process of getting a divorce.
Can I start dating, or do I have to wait until the divorce is final?
According to the Bible, marriage is a lifetime commitment. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate” (Matthew 19:6). There are three situations in which dating during the divorce process might occur.
The first is the case of a spouse who has biblical grounds for divorce.Generally, if you’re disagreeing with me, it’s because something I said hit you emotionally and rubs you the wrong way. It doesn’t negate the fact that my observations are just that – observations.If I am to observe that a disproportionate number of “10’s” are: shallow, narcissistic, selfish, demanding, difficult, more likely to flirt, less likely to commit, and somewhat disconnected from the ‘average’ person’s reality, you might say, “Maybe…but I know this one girl who is gorgeous and sweet”. It still doesn’t change that most 10’s are problematic partners.Most people going through a divorce, even when it is not their fault and even when they have biblical reasons, are usually shattered by the circumstances and not in any frame of mind to be “dating.” People don’t usually make good decisions while “on the rebound.” For a still-hurting divorced person or someone in a painful divorce process to be dating is neither wise nor prudent.The abandoned spouse may indeed be lonely, but making clear-headed, godly relationship decisions in such a situation is difficult, if not impossible.They’re out there, you just have to look around and be the man that’s worthy enough to get with that gal.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating