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However, he was still making a big effort to see me frequently, he seemed excited about me, and there was absolutely no indication that we wouldn’t continue dating.

Until he called me one day after an especially rough week of work (working till 9 or 10 pm) and school (I hadn’t seen him at all that week) and told me that he was really sorry, but he was overwhelmed and felt like he really just needed to focus on work for the next few weeks — that I was great and, if he was at his old job, he would definitely want to date me.

But I also feel like, if you are really in to someone, you don’t let them go and you do what you can to try and make it work.

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I asked if I would ever see him again, and his response was that, at least for the next few weeks, he had to say no.

There was no commitment from him that I would ever hear from him again.

I’m having a hard time wrapping my head around the emotional whiplash that I experienced with this seemingly out-of-the-blue end of things.

I guess my question is, is being too busy to date ever a valid reason to end a relationship?

Or is it always code for someone not being that interested?

Seeing as everything was going so well until the one day it wasn’t, I have a hard time believing it was because he wasn’t in to me.

For dating specifically, time management is the key to busting the “too busy to date” myth.

The truth is being habitually busy may be self-imposed as a way to avoid dating…

I want to believe him, but I am having a hard time not taking this as he just didn’t want to pursue something with me.

— Emotional Whiplash This kind of thing happens all the time, and I think we, especially as women, make it much more difficult than it has to be because we have this sort of fairytale, rom-com idea of love and relationships where our significant other will move heaven and earth to be with us if his feelings are real and sincere. Keep your heart open and hope for better luck next time.

And, yes, it’s true that, if you’re really into someone else, you don’t want to let that person go. It sucks until you finally meet the right person at the right time and things line up and, yeah, it still takes effort and everything, but it .

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