i am not dating anymore - I am dating a man 12 years older than me
Because whn you are sure, those OPINIONS are just opinions, not rules.
Now, I'm sure your parents wnat the best for you, I'm sure they want to know that you are safe in this situation, that you aren't going to shut them out, that you won't be used or hurt because of this relationship.
i mean wouldnt you at least want to meet him just to see who your child is so in love with. But if you taking things in a harsh way, she'll shut you out. Any man older than you is only dating you for the sex, maybe not after years in the relationship but your first interactions were only him trying to have sex with a "fresh" young girl, not a old lady there age.
The more you are confident in YOU, the less the bad stuff affects your decisions. A loving reciprocal relationship is tough to come by. I hope that when i do tell my parents they'll see how much i love him, and how sure i am in our relationship. There is no way on this earth that you can get them to 'like' the idea of you dating a much older guy. Going in and talking with them, you have realize BEFOREHAND that they can say whatever they feel.
That they may explode, that they may just adore it. You are in a relationship with your guy, you feel it's the right thing to do, you are not in a relationship with your parents.
I know it is a tough thing to go through, but to be honest, if you are happy, then they "should" be happy for you. They always feel like they know what you should do and that their way is the right way.
Best thing to do is to just tell them and get it over with.
Does my mother agree with the choice i am making no she doesnt, but she accepts it and supports me no matter how much she disagrees. They never approved my choice of course in diploma (graphic design).
I mean why are you going to just avoid the man your daughter is with just because of the age? Saying that what I did is rubbish, my future is dim, my assignments was never "a thing" They never respect my choice, and yet my boyfriend was so work out on the approval part. A little piece of advice, Understand you daughter, tell her to bring him home often so that you could observe their relationship. Listen to your daughter about what kinda man he is to her. It could be his a man worth you daughter's love, it could be not. If he's a bad guy, she'll feels it, and she'll let you know her concerns.When we both attempt to 'think' about our relationship, we have no answers to the questions from everyone else. It is only when we 'feel' how right the relationship is that our situation makes sense. My boyfriend is 24 years old older than me, I'm 22 .. But what concern him the most is my parents approval. But I could say that if he chose to let me go because of tough love...In fact, we AGREE with everyone else: YES, it is inappropriate. This is the last thing I planned on in my young life, believe me. for my future and for me to get a better and younger man, i doubt that i would turn out as good as he imagine. I'll hate my parents for not being understanding and supportive, and I'll hate him for betraying my love, my trust. I never thought twice about our relationship until i realized i was going to have to tell my mom. We value the same things, he makes me incredibly happy, and i love him.They may even want to make sure that you don't get lost in this. As a parent my biggest concern is that my child is safe. I am 24 and my boyfriend that I am living with is 43.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating