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It was about bringing the families of the two parties together, building relationships, building a bigger family. Mainly because over the years I have been angered at how the noble custom of ilobolo has been turned into a get-rich-quick scam.

The parents of some girls would charge the would-be groom hundreds of thousands of rands in ilobolo, arguing that they had spent a lot of money educating their daughter. Having paid the exorbitant ilobolo fees, the hapless chap would still be expected to finance wedding proceedings.

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The structure of ilobolo itself got distorted a long time ago.

I will confine myself to Zulu tradition, because I come from that background.

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Which is why I laugh at self-appointed custodians of culture when they argue that same-sex relationships are not "our culture".

Now the queers, long condemned by traditionalists as an abomination, are leading the way in putting ilobolo in its proper context: it is not about buying a person.

It is about building lifetime relationships between the two families.

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Michael concentrates on all aspects of industrial relations and employment law litigation.

He spent a year practicing employment law with a prominent London-based international law firm, where he was involved in the employment aspects of a number of multi-jurisdictional transactions and claims to the Employment Tribunal.

But what has been remarkable about the recent spate of same-sex marriages is that black South African queers have deliberately committed themselves to what might be considered the backward - in the world of queers at least - custom of ilobolo.

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