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Consider that someone using a dating site can use a computer and read, and their writing skills are on display, as is their opinion of themselves.
As dating sites collect data on users, they apply it back to the dating pool, and they hone in on the most attractive tier, advertising them to other users and the world to draw more traffic.
This particular form of applied statistical analysis serves to entrench the social image of beauty and the most superficial stratification of biological and cultural lotteries.
This is the dark truth about internet dating: a lot of people are paid a lot of money to quantify and commodify your need for intimacy.
But this is not the dark truth many people sub-lingually hint at with the comment “There’s just something, I dunno, weird about it” and other vapid dismissals of e Dating.
Men and women write things like “I enjoy kicking babies” and their favorite things are porn, donkeys, and setting Barbie dolls on fire.
These people are not crazy: crazy people write social manifestos in their profiles.
I would never generalize to the point of saying there aren’t members of both genders trolling the web for sex partners, but the ratio of them to people looking for a more involved, or at least prolonged, relationship is no different online than offline, and online it falls in favor of the prolonged.
Women, and some men, go on dating sites to get a more thorough testing phase before committing to conversation, phone numbers, and bed.
In a decade and a half of dating, I’ve been offered a bathroom blow job from a stranger twice in a bar, and only once on the internet. People always want sex.
For a set of attractive-enough or available-enough people, the internet offers no more or less the opportunity of getting sex than the bar.
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